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Ep. 122 Wandering the Wild Mess: Self-Trust & Starting Over with Guest Heather Morgan

What happens when the map you’ve followed your entire life suddenly disappears?
In this conversation, Bree talks with writer, speaker, and podcast host Heather Morgan to explore what it really looks like to move through a major life reset — divorce, career change, identity loss, and rebuilding from the ground up.
Heather shares her journey from Fortune 500 strategist to creator of Wandering the Wild Mess, a platform devoted to self-trust and reinvention. Together, Bree and Heather unpack the uncomfortable middle space between who you were and who you’re becoming — a place many people find themselves after layoffs, relationship endings, burnout, or any major life disruption.
This episode dives into the emotional realities of identity deconstruction, nervous system recovery, breaking behavioral loops, and the micro-decisions that build confidence and self-trust over time.
In This Episode, We Explore
What it means to “wander the wild mess” during life transitions
Losing identity after divorce, career shifts, or major change
Why strength is built through discomfort, not certainty
The role of detachment in reducing suffering during hard seasons
Recognizing and breaking personal loops and behavioral patterns
How scarcity mindset shows up in identity and productivity
Rebuilding self-trust through small courageous actions
The power of environment and boundaries during identity shifts
How to stop self-abandoning and start choosing yourself
Anchoring a new identity before you fully feel it
Using future-self decisions to create change one step at a time
Key Takeaways
You have survived 100% of your life so far. Your track record is strong
Detaching from how life “should” look creates freedom to move forward
Many patterns persist because they serve a subconscious need
Identity reconstruction is wobbly at first — that’s normal
Confidence and self-trust come from reps, not insight alone
Every action is a vote for the person you’re becoming
Connect with Heather Morgan
Website: wanderingthewildmess.com  
Podcast: Wandering the Wild Mess
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
 
 

Ep. 121 Winter '26, Lesson Two: Courage Isn't Fearlessness -- It's Action

Why Courage Isn’t Fearlessness—It’s Action in the Face of Fear
In this powerful second lesson from the Winter of 2026 series, Bree Johnson explores what courage really looks like when life feels unstable, overwhelming, and uncertain.
We’re often taught that courage belongs to the bold, the confident, the fearless.
But real courage?
It’s feeling scared out of your mind… and choosing to move forward anyway.
In this episode, Bree shares personal stories—from speaking out about work harm and community care, to navigating self-doubt and obstacles on the TEDxDuluth stage—to show how courage is built through action, not perfection.
This conversation is for anyone who has been questioning their voice, shrinking their dreams, or waiting to “feel ready” before taking the next step.
Takeaways
Why courage is not confidence—and never has been
How fear, doubt, and uncertainty are part of the courage process
What Bree learned from speaking publicly despite relationship loss
Behind-the-scenes reflections on preparing for TEDxDuluth
The “lion within” metaphor and what it reveals about inner strength
Four practical pathways to building courage in your own life
Why action—not motivation—is the foundation of bravery
How courage supports nervous system regulation and work recovery
Ways to move forward even when you feel unqualified or afraid
About This Series: Lessons from the Winter of ’26
This episode begins a new series where Bree reflects on leadership, community care, and whole-human resilience shaped by living through a season of social and political reckoning in Minnesota.
Each episode offers grounded insight for navigating uncertainty without losing yourself in the process.
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 

Ep. 120 Winter ’26, Lesson One: Finding My Voice in a Season of Reckoning

In this deeply personal episode, Bree shares the first lesson from the Winter of ’26: learning that she had been too quiet.
After years of compartmentalizing herself to “protect” her growing business, Bree reflects on what it cost her—and her community—to edit her voice, soften her truth, and outsource her authenticity in the name of success. She opens up about leaving the employment law firm she co-founded, building Executive Unschool from a place of rupture and realignment, and choosing healing over hustle.
This episode is about leadership that starts inside. About reclaiming your voice in a time of pressure. About choosing wholeness over palatability.
If you’ve ever felt torn between being yourself and being “marketable,” between staying safe and staying true, this conversation is for you.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
Why Bree believes silence doesn’t keep us safe—it keeps us small
The story behind leaving her law firm and building Executive Unschool
How “polishing” herself for growth diluted her impact
What it means to lead from nervous system regulation, not survival mode
Why authenticity is not a liability—it’s the source
A vision for leadership rooted in care, integrity, and collective healing
An invitation to reclaim your full voice in uncertain times
Key Takeaways
You don’t have to fragment yourself to succeed
Your lived experience is part of your leadership
Neutrality often costs more than honesty
Regulation, rest, and reflection are leadership skills
Your values are not separate from your work—they are the work
About This Series: Lessons from the Winter of ’26
This episode begins a new series where Bree reflects on leadership, community care, and whole-human resilience shaped by living through a season of social and political reckoning in Minnesota.
Each episode offers grounded insight for navigating uncertainty without losing yourself in the process.
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 

Ep. 119 Leadership in 2026: Less Control, More Inner Stability with Andrea Tessier

What if the leadership skills we’ve been taught to develop are no longer the ones that matter?
In this episode, Bree Johnson co-hosts with Andrea Tessier to name what many leaders are quietly feeling as we move toward 2026: the old playbook is breaking down.
Strategy isn’t enough. Performance is no longer sustainable. And certainty is gone.
Together, they explore what leadership actually requires in this next chapter—inner steadiness, emotional literacy, intuitive discernment, and the capacity to lead without abandoning yourself. This isn’t about becoming softer. It’s about becoming more integrated.
This conversation opens the door to a different kind of leadership—one rooted in regulation instead of pressure, clarity instead of urgency, and integrity instead of over-functioning.
If you’ve been feeling the weight of leadership more acutely, questioning your decisions, or sensing that something has to change—but aren’t sure what yet—this episode will meet you right where you are.
In This Episode, We Explore:
Why leadership in 2026 will require capacity shifts, not new tactics
How chronic pressure and over-responsibility quietly erode decision-making
The difference between intuition and reactivity—and why it matters now
Why community and collaboration are becoming survival skills, not “nice-to-haves”
How emotional intelligence becomes a stabilizing force in uncertainty
What it means to lead from inner integrity instead of external expectations
Why regulation—not hustle—is emerging as a leadership strategy
Key Takeaways:
The future of leadership is less about control and more about internal steadiness
Intuition becomes clearer when the nervous system is regulated
Over-functioning is not strength—it’s nervous system debt
Leaders don’t need more certainty; they need self-trust
Sustainable leadership requires spaces where people can set down what they’ve been carrying
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 
 

Ep. 118 Some Years Ask Questions. 2025 Gave Me Answers.

There’s a quote I keep returning to: Some years are questions, and some years are answers.
For me, 2025 was an answer year.
Not because everything was easy but because the growth was undeniable. In this episode, I share five lived lessons from a year that asked me to stop negotiating with myself, simplify radically, experiment with contentment, trust the timing of the universe, and listen to my intuition more deeply than ever before.
These aren’t theories or best practices. They’re answers that showed up through real decisions, real risk, and real trust.
Takeaways
Why honesty about fear creates faster clarity than overthinking ever will
How simplifying became both a financial and nervous-system strategy
What happened when I stopped striving and experimented with contentment
Why control blocks alignment—and trust opens better outcomes
How trusting my intuition led to unexpected opportunities without chasing visibility
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704 

Ep. 117 Why Resentment Peaks During the Holidays

The holidays have a way of amplifying what we’ve been carrying all year.
In this brief year-end episode, Bree explores why resentment often shows up during the holidays—and why it’s not a personal failure. Drawing on Brené Brown’s research, she unpacks how resentment is frequently rooted in unmet needs and unspoken envy, especially for rest, ease, and space.
This episode invites listeners to stop judging resentment and instead listen to what it’s pointing toward. Because when we understand the need underneath, we can give ourselves the comfort, pause, or care we’ve been postponing—and begin the new year from a more regulated place.
A quiet reminder that recovery doesn’t start in January. It starts with honesty.
We’ve been sold the wrong story about wellbeing.
It’s not that leaders don’t care enough.
It’s not that they aren’t resilient enough.
And it’s definitely not that they need one more productivity hack.
The real problem?
Leaders are hemorrhaging energy trying to control things that were never theirs to manage in the first place.
In this episode, I break down the single biggest barrier to wellbeing I see across founders, people leaders, and women running entire households: letting external uncertainty steal time, focus, and nervous system capacity.
Takeaways
Control is the illusion. Influence is the work.
Fear is an energy leak. Focus is a stabilizer.
Your humanity is your advantage.
Leadership doesn’t require certainty.
Recovery is essential work, not a reward.
Positive focus isn’t denial—it’s discernment.
If you’re tired of feeling braced for impact—and ready to reclaim your energy—this episode is for you.
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704 

Ep. 116 The Biggest Leadership Lie We All Believe About Wellbeing

We’ve been sold the wrong story about wellbeing.
It’s not that leaders don’t care enough.
It’s not that they aren’t resilient enough.
And it’s definitely not that they need one more productivity hack.
The real problem?
Leaders are hemorrhaging energy trying to control things that were never theirs to manage in the first place.
In this episode, I break down the single biggest barrier to wellbeing I see across founders, people leaders, and women running entire households: letting external uncertainty steal time, focus, and nervous system capacity.
Takeaways
Control is the illusion. Influence is the work.
Fear is an energy leak. Focus is a stabilizer.
Your humanity is your advantage.
Leadership doesn’t require certainty.
Recovery is essential work, not a reward.
Positive focus isn’t denial—it’s discernment.
If you’re tired of feeling braced for impact—and ready to reclaim your energy—this episode is for you.
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Soul Goal Free, Live Workshop 11:30 CST Dec. 16 
Soul Goal Workshop Sign Up: bit.ly/soulgoalworkshop
 
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704 

Ep. 115 This Podcast is for YOU!

Bree discusses transforming work into a craft, emphasizing the need for personal empowerment and the identification of resistance in one's professional life.
 
She invites listeners to join her Soul Goals workshop 11:30 CST Dec 16 and reflects on her journey of redefining her work to focus on individual needs rather than corporate demands.
 
Bree encourages listeners to embrace their resistance as a guide towards a more fulfilling and aligned work experience.
 
Takeaways
How work as a craft enhances fulfillment.
Eliminate tasks that drain your energy.
Identify what no longer excites you in your work.
Recognize that this journey is lifelong.
Shift focus from corporate to individual empowerment.
Embrace resistance as a sign of misalignment.
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Soul Goal Free, Live Workshop 11:30 CST Dec. 16 
Soul Goal Workshop Sign Up: bit.ly/soulgoalworkshop
 
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704 

Ep. 114 Put on Your Own Oxygen Mask First with Guest Stephanie Wall Morrow

Bree Johnson hosts guest Stephanie Wall Morrow who advocates for integrating genuine self-care into daily life. They discuss the creation of The Self Care Circle, accessible self-care practices, the significance of mindfulness and intention, and the myths surrounding self-care.
Stephanie also shares insights on navigating self-care with ADHD, effective time management strategies, and the importance of creating supportive work environments for neurodivergent professionals. 
Takeaways
Putting yourself first allows you to help others.
Accessible self-care practices can be simple and effective.
Mindfulness and intention are key to genuine self-care.
Self-care practices can vary by individual and season.
Debunking myths around self-care can empower individuals.
ADHD requires tailored self-care strategies.
Connect with Guest Stephanie 
Gift for Listeners: My Self Care Circle
 
 

Ep. 113 The Weight of Others' Expectations

The often unrecognized burden of meeting others' expectations, particularly for women who are caregivers, is intense and time consuming. Bree reflects on her personal experiences during the holiday season and emphasizes the importance of reclaiming time and energy for oneself.
 
She encourages listeners to recognize the invisible weight of expectations and to prioritize their own desires and joy, rather than solely focusing on pleasing others. The conversation highlights the need for women to say yes to themselves and to embrace their own needs and preferences.
 
Takeaways
The weight of expectations can be overwhelming for women.
Many expectations are unspoken and inherited.
Saying no to others is not the same as saying yes to yourself.
Reclaiming time and energy is essential for personal joy.
Women often prioritize others' needs over their own desires.
Disappointment of others can feel dangerous but is necessary for self-care.
Choosing oneself can lead to greater joy and fulfillment.
It's important to recognize the pressure we put on ourselves.
Saying yes to small desires can have a big impact.
We are here to live our lives wild and free.
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704