How Good Can It Get

I’ve decided we all need more joy, so I’m making it official. Maybe you could use a little more too.
I choose joy over happiness because joy feels easier to reach, even in the hard moments. So I’m wrapping up a week in my creative cocoon and less to impress season by looking at what brought me joy, both in the headlines and in my own heart.
This episode explores:
The women who made history in the midterms, including Minnesota’s first woman governor-elect
Catherine Breed’s 900-mile swim down the California coast, and the quote that captures my steady season
Meeting my niece Georgia, and remembering first-time motherhood as the ultimate self-trust experience
My sensory processing lightbulb moment, and what it explains about my crash-and-burn cycles
Saying goodbye to Almond Joys and Junior Mints on my gluten-free journey
What brought you joy this week? Send me a note and tell me, then share this episode with a friend who could use a little joy date of her own.
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When I stop trying to be impressive, I learn quick how much space it had been taking up. 
This week, I’ve been naming what I’m setting down in my less to impress season. Today, I talk about what’s filling the space: steadier work that my inner Enneagram 3 sometimes calls boring, which is also where I’m finding a whole new zone of genius. It looks like 999 words a day, grace when life asks for it, and a lot more presence for the people and conversations right in front of me. This episode explores:
My 999-word daily writing practice and the 80,000-word finish line on December 31
Choosing grace over my commitment after 42 sleepless hours welcoming my niece, Georgia
My creative cocoon season, and why I stopped scanning other women’s 2027 goals
The conversations I want to go deeper on, including how AI could make work better for women
Why the sidelines with my kids matter as much as the impact I make in my business
What could you see more clearly if you stopped scanning the horizon? If this one lands, share it with a friend who’s ready to put her attention back on what’s already hers.
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I’ve spent years copying what looked impressive without ever asking whether it fit me. Maybe you have too.
I never consciously chose most of it. Seeing people operate a certain way, over and over, conditioned me to believe that was what it took to be respected and seen as valuable. As I practice doing less to impress, I’m uncovering a new layer of the work I started years ago, when I had to separate my work from my worth. This time I’m pulling apart being impressive and being successful, and it feels uncomfortable in real time.
This episode explores:
How a two-hour email rule turned availability into my measure of commitment
The titles I still reach for to sound credible, and why I’d rather lead with my heart
How over-preparing sanitized my own voice out of my work
Looking the part, and the homecoming to who I was at 16
What it means to start impressing me, myself, and I
What would shift for you if you did less to impress this month? If this one lands, share it with a friend who’s ready to stop performing for an audience that isn’t even watching.
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I said out loud that I don’t want to be impressive anymore, and then I posted it. Maybe you’ve felt that pull too.
As a millennial eldest daughter and lifelong overachiever, that admission made my pits sweat. It started with my revenue goals. When I looked closely, I saw a number built to prove myself to people from former lives, people I no longer work with or even respect. This episode explores:
What I actually mean when I say I don’t want to be impressive anymore
How my revenue goal exposed the layer of external validation in my business
The hidden hours I spend polishing things in my head before anyone sees them
Why off-the-cuff episodes are part of my practice of letting my best be enough
My new experiment mantra for the month: less to impress
Whose approval is quietly setting your goals?
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For most of my life, I’ve wanted to be impressive. This week I started to wonder whether I still do.
I recorded this one on my phone, diary style, with no outline and no research. It came right after I got to witness my brother and sister-in-law welcome their baby into the world. Being in the room for a birth has a way of rearranging your priorities.
As an Enneagram 3, achievement has always been my native language. “I’m an attorney” used to say everything that needed saying. Now I’m sitting with a gut-punch of a question about what kind of ambition fits this season of my life, when my boys and my family matter more than any title.
So in this episode, we get more precise. This episode explores:
How the drive to be impressive can quietly run the show, even when nobody at home ever pushed you
Why a sacred moment like a birth can make old ambitions suddenly feel small
The nuance of wanting discipline and devotion while staying clear of burnout
What I might be willing to trade, from bigger paychecks to bigger stages, for a life that feels good
Why hitting record with zero polish became its own unschooling experiment
If you’ve worn the “impressive” mask too, send this one to the friend who would recognize it.
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This week’s headlines about women and money scared me more than my boys’ Halloween costumes, and one of those masks squirts fake blood...
So I put on my former news junkie hat, with my employment attorney hat right on top of it, and took you on a haunted house tour of the stories that caught my eye. Some are spooky and a few are downright ghoulish.
Together, they say a lot about how work is treating women right now. This episode explores:
Microsoft’s voluntary buyout offer to about 60,000 employees, and why the scale of it feels so eerie
How a buyout can be a real gift for women ready to leap into something of their own
The disappearing act: 451,000 fewer women in the labor force since January, and what might be running underneath it
Why so many wealthy women skip financial advisors, according to BlackRock’s first study on women and wealth
What it means that women hold fewer than 14% of senior AI leadership roles, and some easy ways to start building your AI know-how
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Right now, rewiring my relationship with ambition feels kind of boring. Nobody warned me about that part.
We love a comeback story. What I’m living is the slow middle, where I catch old patterns in tiny moments and unschool them one decision at a time.
Ambition and I are basically in couples therapy. On one side of the table sits the ruthless, get-shit-done version of me who was a rock star in the C-suite. On the other side sits the slower, more devoted life I’m choosing now. Some days I miss her. Other days I feel deeply sad for who she thought she had to be.
So in this episode, we get more precise. This episode explores:
Why the middle of rewiring can feel so dull, and what that boredom might be telling us
The ABCs I’m unschooling: agreements, beliefs and conditioning carried over from 15 years of urgent work
How I’m letting my intuition sit beside my ambition so my body gets a real say in my goals
My new scoreboard of devotion goals, built to grow self-trust
Why boring might be what safety feels like to a nervous system trained on urgency
If you’re in a complicated relationship with your own ambition, I’d love to hear how you’re choosing a way of living and working that fits who you are. Come find me on Instagram and tell me.
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Burnout and the ambition hangover love to show up together. For many of us, burnout is what finally slows us down long enough to notice the hangover was there all along. From the inside, the two can feel almost identical.
Audacious ambition got me into the C-suite, and I look back at that version of me with a lot of love. Then, after one work wound after another, I started asking what all that striving was really for. That old ambition still shows up when I set revenue goals, and this chapter of my life is asking for something different.
This episode explores:
How the World Health Organization defines burnout and what it looks like in everyday work
Why burnout and the ambition hangover so often land as a one-two punch
One simple question to help you tell them apart
Why regulating your nervous system comes before any big decision about your career or business
The daily rituals I use to tune back in, and when to bring in a doctor, therapist, coach or mentor
Are you tired of the work, or tired of the reasons you’re doing it? If this one lands, send it to the friend who keeps saying she just needs a vacation.
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I’ve spent most of my career climbing, and lately the wanting has gotten a bit stale. 
For years, ambition was how people knew me. It was also how I came to understand myself. Every role I held, from managing partner to COO to chief strategy officer, asked me to keep reaching for the next thing. Even three years into building Executive Unschool, I still catch myself chasing goals designed to prove I’ve made it on my own.
Then something shifts. A promotion feels flat. A work wound or a season of deep exhaustion forces you to stop, and you find yourself asking what it’s all for. So in this episode, we get more precise. This episode explores:
What the ambition hangover is and why so many high-achieving women are quietly living it
The arrival fallacy, and why reaching the goal can leave us feeling emptier than before
Why this shows up whether you lead inside a company or run a business of your own
Where in your life have you reached the goal and then wondered what it was all for? 
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I’ve chased the same financial goal for three years, and this weekend I finally asked who it was really for. Maybe you have too.
I told myself the number meant financial freedom and legacy wealth for my family. When I sat quietly with it, I found a hidden audience behind it: colleagues, and earlier versions of me, from a professional life I walked away from years ago.
Seven years into healing old work conditioning, I’m still finding new layers of it. This one showed up as a scoreboard I didn’t know I’d packed.
So in this episode, we get more precise. This episode explores:
How workplaces quietly teach us what success looks like, through billable hours, bonuses, titles and corner offices
Why a big goal can secretly be a rebuttal to a former boss or a parent’s old expectations
What psychologists found about goals chased for outside recognition and how they affect well-being
How borrowed goals feed burnout, even after you hit them
Why ambition belongs in your life, and how to make sure your goals belong to you (it’s an “and”)
Here’s a question to sit with this week: what would you go after if no one from your past was watching?
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