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Ep. 132 Part 5: Work Isn't Working...The Hardest Part REWIRE

Most of the rules running your life were written before you were old enough to question them.
In this episode, Bree introduces the second step of the Work Recovery Method — REWIRE — and breaks down the invisible operating system underneath all of our behavior: your ABCs (agreements, beliefs, and conditioning). If you've ever changed jobs and still ended up in the same cycle or pattern of dissatisfaction, this is the episode that explains why, and what to do about it.
Key Takeaways
Your ABCs (agreements, beliefs, conditioning) are the operating system underneath all of your behavior — including the patterns you wish you could change.
Changing your external circumstances won't interrupt a pattern that lives at this level. The work has to happen from the inside
Neuroscience confirms the brain can form new neural pathways at any age but the new path will feel like a dirt road before it feels like a highway
Rewiring starts with one question: what outcome am I experiencing, and is it one I actually want?
The more aware you become of what's driving you, the more agency you feel and agency is what makes life feel expansive rather than reactive
Reflection Question Take a look at one recurring pattern in your work or relationships. What agreement, belief, or conditioning might be sitting underneath it? Is it something you chose, or something you inherited?
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Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Keywords: rewiring beliefs, work recovery method, agreements beliefs conditioning, burnout patterns, why the same job problems keep happening, invisible operating system, neural pathways rewiring, autopilot behavior, self-worth and work, burnout recovery tools, subconscious patterns women, how to break work cycles, ambitious women burnout, conscious living, executive burnout

Ep. 131 Part 4: Work Isn't Working, Now What? REGULATE

Work Isn't Working, Now What? Part 4: Regulate
When work stops working, the instinct is to think harder, plan faster, and do more. But what if the doing is exactly what's keeping you stuck? In part four of the Work Isn't Working series, Bree introduces the foundational step most high achievers skip entirely: regulation.
Before strategy, before decisions, before any meaningful next step, your nervous system needs to feel safe enough to think clearly. This episode explores why dysregulated states produce reactive choices, what nervous system regulation actually looks and feels like in practice, and how flipping the cultural script from Have, Do, Be to Be, Do, Have changes everything about how you build the life you actually want.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
Why the mind-in-overdrive response to professional struggle works against you, not for you
What happens in the brain during prolonged stress, and why "thinking your way out" has real physiological limits
The difference between reactive decisions and grounded ones, and how to tell which you're making
Bree's three personal regulation practices: no-headphone walks, hypnobreathwork, and meditation baths
What makes any practice a true regulation practice, and why body-focused is the key distinction
The Have, Do, Be sequence most of us inherited, and why reversing it to Be, Do, Have is where real momentum begins
The Insight Worth Writing Down
Most of us have been living a Have, Do, Be sequence: get the thing, do the work, then finally feel at peace. The sequence that actually creates abundance and joy runs the other way. You be first, grounded and connected to yourself. From there, you do with clarity and intention. And then you have more of what you've been working toward, built on a foundation that can hold it.
Reflection Question
Where in your life have you been making decisions from a dysregulated state? And what would one small regulating practice this week make possible?
Connect with Bree
Website: executiveunschool.com 
Instagram: @breejohnsonofficial
Next in the Series
Part 5 of Work Isn't Working is coming next. Once you've regulated, a whole new question becomes available to you: what do you actually want? When you're not operating from chaos, that answer might surprise you.
If this episode resonated, share it with a woman in your life who needs permission to slow down before she speeds up.

Ep. 130 Part 3: Work Isn't Working...When It's Your Whole Identity

What happens when the thing you built your entire identity around disappears? In this episode of Work Isn't Working, Bree gets personal — sharing how the intoxicating elixir of career success quietly consumed her identity through her twenties and into her thirties, until the whole thing came crashing down and forced her to ask the hardest question: Who am I without my work?
This is the episode for every high-achiever who has an easy answer to "what do you do" but a complicated one to "who are you."
In This Episode, You'll Hear: 
Why work-based identity is so seductive and how it's designed to be
The psychology of contingent self-worth and why it makes your nervous system treat setbacks like survival threats
Why you can't think your way out of an identity crisis and what actually works
The three-step Work Recovery Method: regulate, rewire, reclaim
How Bree shed the habits, relationships, and even the dream home that didn't center her values
Why rebuilding identity is slow, nonlinear, and the greatest gift you'll ever give yourself
Key Takeaways
Work-based identity isn't a character flaw — it's a seduction. Recognizing the pull is the first step.
When your sense of self lives in your job title, your nervous system responds to every setback as a survival threat.
You can't rewire what you can't see. Regulation has to come before reflection.
Identity reconstruction happens decision by decision, not overnight.
The people and habits that don't center your values are the first things to go.
Reflection Question If you woke up tomorrow and your job — your title, your role, your professional identity — was completely gone, what would be left? Who would you be?
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Keywords: work identity, burnout recovery, contingent self-worth, nervous system regulation, Work Recovery Method, overachiever burnout, identity after burnout, hustle culture, executive burnout, reclaiming yourself, who am I without my job, work wounds, conscious leadership, ambitious women

Ep. 129 Part 2: Work Isn't Working...And It's Causing Mind & Body Harm

How Work Is Quietly Harming You — Physically, Mentally & Emotionally
Part of the Work Isn't Working series on the How Good Can I Get? podcast
In this episode, host and former employment attorney digs past the surface-level conversation about workplace stress to expose the measurable, documented ways chronic work pressure is harming your body, reshaping your brain, and eroding your relationships.
From elevated cortisol and cardiovascular strain to impaired prefrontal cortex function and trauma-mirroring neurobiological patterns, this episode names what most organizations — and their EAP programs — refuse to.
If you've ever felt exhausted, reactive, or hollowed out after years of high performance, this conversation will reframe everything. Because the goal isn't to push through. It's to understand what your body has been trying to tell you all along.
Key themes
Chronic cortisol elevation: How sustained work stress keeps the body's stress hormone dangerously high for years — or decades.
Nervous system dysregulation: Fight-or-flight as a permanent background setting — and why a beach vacation won't fix it.
Cognitive impairment: Sustained pressure damages the prefrontal cortex — the very region your job demands most.
Work wounds as trauma: Columbia University research links adverse workplace experiences to trauma-like neurobiological patterns.
Systemic failure: Why legal systems, EAP programs, and affinity groups are bandaids — not solutions.
Work recovery: The shift from pushing through to listening to what your body's wisdom is actually signaling.
If this episode resonated, subscribe and leave a review — and share it with the high performer in your life who keeps saying they're "fine."
Next week: why we build our identities inside our work, and what it really costs to walk away.
Keywords:
burnout recovery, chronic workplace stress, work stress physical effects, cortisol and burnout, nervous system dysregulation, prefrontal cortex stress, work trauma, work wounds, high performer burnout, executive burnout, Sunday scaries, emotional numbness at work
Connect with Bree
Social: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Work Recovery Services: www.executiveunschool.com/services

Ep. 128 Part 1: Work Isn't Working...And Burnout Isn't the Problem

New Series: Work Isn't Working...And It's Not Just You Episode #1
Burnout gets all the attention — but what if it's not actually the root problem? In this episode, host Bree Johnson digs into why treating burnout like a time management or resilience issue keeps you stuck in the same cycle, and what's really going on underneath the surface.
If you've tried all the "fixes" and still feel off, this one will reframe everything.
In This Episode:
Why burnout is a symptom, not the source — and what it's actually pointing to
The physiological truth about chronic workplace stress and why your body isn't overreacting
What work wounds are — and how past experiences with bullying, betrayal, burnout, and bad behavior silently shape how you work today
Why changing jobs doesn't fix the feeling (and what does)
The gap nobody names: operating like a machine in a system that rewards output, while your nervous system requires something completely different
What real recovery from work actually looks like — and why it's not about doing less
Key Takeaway
You are not broken. You are responding to something real. And the moment you stop trying to fix yourself and start understanding what your system actually needs — that's when something different becomes possible.
Keywords burnout recovery, workplace stress, high achiever burnout, nervous system and work, work wounds, emotional recovery from work, burnout symptoms, high performance burnout, work trauma, sustainable career
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Work Recovery Services: www.executiveunschool.com/services

Ep. 127 Stop building a life. Start living it.

What if the life you've been working so hard to build is actually getting in the way of living it? In this personal episode, Bree reflects on a cultural conditioning that keeps so many of us perpetually future-focused — always planning, optimizing, and preparing — while the richness of ordinary life quietly slips by.
Influenced by the recent passing of her 94-year-old grandfather, Bree shares an honest and vulnerable look at the moments she missed, the regret that followed, and the radical but simple shift she's choosing going forward: more presence, less rehearsal.
Key takeaways
US culture glorifies building, not living. Unlike older cultures that emphasize experiencing life as it happens, we're conditioned to endlessly plan, optimize, and prepare for some future version of life.
Getting ahead doesn't make the list shorter. The to-do list of "getting out in front of things" never ends — it only steals presence and peace from the moment you're already in.
You don't get those moments back. Bree shares the real cost of choosing convenience over connection — and the grief that comes when you realize "next time" ran out.
Presence is the antidote to regret. The more we show up for the small, ordinary moments — with family, friends, and ourselves — the less we'll look back wishing we had.
Life doesn't need a better plan — it needs your attention. Instead of a tighter roadmap, Bree invites a guiding question: what's already here that's worth being present for?
Topics: mindfulness  ·  present moment living  ·  work-life balance  ·  grief & loss  ·  personal growth  ·  intentional living  ·  hustle culture  ·  family & relationships
 
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Work Recovery Services: www.executiveunschool.com/services

Ep. 126 C'est La Vie - A Spring Restart

Episode 125: C'est la Vie –
A Spring Restart
Spring isn't just a season change—it's an invitation. Q1 has been rough for many of us. Work let us down. The world felt heavy. We carried burdens that weren't ours to carry. But what if you could give yourself permission to let it all go and start fresh?
This episode reframes "c'est la vie"—not as resignation, but as permission. Bree explores why spring is actually the best time to restart, how the equinox aligns with your nervous system's capacity for change, and what it really means to "live and let live" when it comes to yourself.
Why spring beats January for restarts
Winter contracts you; spring expands you
The biology of longer light and nervous system recovery
Spring as the astrological new year
Why timing matters for sustainable change
The reframe: C'est la vie as permission
Letting go of Q1 without shame
Permission to stop carrying what isn't yours
Choosing something different, starting today
The neuroscience of seasonal reset
Live and let live (starting with yourself)
Inhabiting this moment, not the "should have" moment
Releasing guilt, narratives, and illusion of control
The grace you give a friend, given to yourself
Practical self-compassion in a demanding world
Takeaways
Your exhaustion from Q1 doesn't mean you failed—the timing was off
Spring provides actual neurological resources for restart
You don't need Monday or next January—you can start today
How good it gets depends on your willingness to let heavy stuff go
Seasonal alignment matters as much as willpower
You deserve a fresh start, and the season is designed for it
Reflection What if the best time to restart isn't determined by your calendar, but by the actual resources available to you? Spring isn't poetic—it's practical.
You are resourced for change right now. The question is: are you willing to let go?
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Work Recovery Services: www.executiveunschool.com/services

Ep. 125 Is it me? Or is business 'unusual'?

Business is unusual and it's not just you that sees it. The work machine is operating exactly as designed. In this episode, Bree challenges the belief that burnout, exhaustion, and disillusionment are personal failures, revealing instead how modern work systems are built on extraction.
This conversation reframes the “rat race” and our pervasive work hard until retirement conditioning — and invites a different way of living and working.
Why “Is it just me?” is the wrong question
The hidden cost of success for high-achieving women
The extraction model of modern work systems
The “retirement lie” and delayed joy
Golden handcuffs: paycheck, benefits, and perceived safety
Corporate scaling vs. human sustainability
Self-abandonment as a learned survival strategy
Layoffs and the myth of job security
Why burnout is systemic—not personal
Takeaways
Your exhaustion is not a failure—it’s feedback
Modern work is designed to extract time, energy, and attention
The system rewards productivity over humanity
You’ve been conditioned to delay joy and normalize stress
Awareness is the first step to reclaiming your life
Work Recovery is an active process, not passive escape
Reflection
What if your burnout or exhaustion isn’t a sign you’ve failed—but proof the system is working exactly as designed?
You are not the problem. The system is extractive by design—and you have the power to choose differently. 
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com

Ep. 124 Winter '26, Lesson Four: What Actually Matters When Systems Crumble

In this episode, Bree Johnson reflects on the instability many people are feeling in 2026—from rapid AI-driven changes in work to political volatility and the growing sense that systems we once relied on are less predictable.
When structures feel unstable, the nervous system naturally searches for certainty. That uncertainty often shows up as irritability, anxiety, or a constant sense that something is “off.”
Looking to history, philosophy, and community responses to disruption, Bree explores a simple but powerful conclusion: when the world becomes unstable, the most reliable compass is love. Not sentimentality, but love expressed as care, responsibility, mutual aid, and staying connected to the people around us.
As traditional measures of value like productivity and income become less stable, expanding our definition of what matters—community, service, and relationships—may be essential for navigating the years ahead.
Key Takeaways
Rapid technological change, layoffs, and political instability are creating widespread uncertainty about work and systems people rely on.
When systems feel unstable, the nervous system reacts first, often through anxiety or irritability.
History shows that during unstable periods, community care and mutual aid become critical stabilizing forces.
Money and productivity still matter, but they cannot be the only measure of value or identity.
Relationships, service, and care for others often create the deepest sense of meaning during uncertain times.
Reflection Questions
If love were a primary value guiding your decisions this year, what would you prioritize differently?
Where might you shift energy away from productivity and toward care, connection, or rest?
How could you support or strengthen the community around you right now?
What practices help you stay grounded when the world feels uncertain?
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com

Ep. 123 Winter '26, Lesson Three: Community, Service, and the Truth I Learned

In this deeply personal episode, Bree Johnson shares the third major lesson from the “Winter of 2026”: the incredible power of community rooted in service.
What began with a phone call from a grieving teacher — and a devastating story involving a young student — became a catalyst for Bree’s immersion into community care work across Minnesota. Through rapid mobilization, fundraising, storytelling, and connection-building, Bree discovered a radically different understanding of community than she had previously experienced in her career and life.
This episode explores how authentic community is not an audience, not followers, and not transactional relationships. Instead, it is a two-way exchange grounded in service, mutual learning, and shared humanity.
Key Themes
The difference between being “part of” something and being truly in community
How crisis can catalyze purpose and clarity
Service as the foundation of meaningful connection
Moving from transactional audiences to reciprocal communities
The emotional reality of witnessing others’ pain
Why businesses and leaders must center impact, not ego
The connection between work stress, societal disruption, and the need for recovery
Love as the underlying force of both community and work
Core Insight
The richest communities are built on a two-way street.You give. You receive. You learn. You serve.And the work becomes love in action.
What This Means for Work Recovery
Bree connects her experiences to her broader mission:
Work stress is intensifying due to economic instability, industry disruption, and AI-driven change
Many people are experiencing panic, uncertainty, and identity disruption related to work
Recovery from work harm is not just an individual issue — it is collective care
Work Recovery is not self-care. It is community care.
Questions for Listeners
Where in your life are you truly in community versus simply adjacent to people?
What gifts, resources, or skills do you have that could lessen someone else’s pain?
Does your work create impact for people you care about?
What kind of community do you want to build or belong to?
Memorable Quotes
“There’s a difference between being part of something and being in community.”
“If you are serving a real need, you are meeting people in their pain.”
“The work is to love. Work in action is love in action.”
“Work recovery is community care.”
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com