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Ep. 126 C'est La Vie - A Spring Restart

Episode 125: C'est la Vie –
A Spring Restart
Spring isn't just a season change—it's an invitation. Q1 has been rough for many of us. Work let us down. The world felt heavy. We carried burdens that weren't ours to carry. But what if you could give yourself permission to let it all go and start fresh?
This episode reframes "c'est la vie"—not as resignation, but as permission. Bree explores why spring is actually the best time to restart, how the equinox aligns with your nervous system's capacity for change, and what it really means to "live and let live" when it comes to yourself.
Why spring beats January for restarts
Winter contracts you; spring expands you
The biology of longer light and nervous system recovery
Spring as the astrological new year
Why timing matters for sustainable change
The reframe: C'est la vie as permission
Letting go of Q1 without shame
Permission to stop carrying what isn't yours
Choosing something different, starting today
The neuroscience of seasonal reset
Live and let live (starting with yourself)
Inhabiting this moment, not the "should have" moment
Releasing guilt, narratives, and illusion of control
The grace you give a friend, given to yourself
Practical self-compassion in a demanding world
Takeaways
Your exhaustion from Q1 doesn't mean you failed—the timing was off
Spring provides actual neurological resources for restart
You don't need Monday or next January—you can start today
How good it gets depends on your willingness to let heavy stuff go
Seasonal alignment matters as much as willpower
You deserve a fresh start, and the season is designed for it
Reflection What if the best time to restart isn't determined by your calendar, but by the actual resources available to you? Spring isn't poetic—it's practical.
You are resourced for change right now. The question is: are you willing to let go?
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
Work Recovery Services: www.executiveunschool.com/services

Ep. 125 Is it me? Or is business 'unusual'?

Business is unusual and it's not just you that sees it. The work machine is operating exactly as designed. In this episode, Bree challenges the belief that burnout, exhaustion, and disillusionment are personal failures, revealing instead how modern work systems are built on extraction.
This conversation reframes the “rat race” and our pervasive work hard until retirement conditioning — and invites a different way of living and working.
Why “Is it just me?” is the wrong question
The hidden cost of success for high-achieving women
The extraction model of modern work systems
The “retirement lie” and delayed joy
Golden handcuffs: paycheck, benefits, and perceived safety
Corporate scaling vs. human sustainability
Self-abandonment as a learned survival strategy
Layoffs and the myth of job security
Why burnout is systemic—not personal
Takeaways
Your exhaustion is not a failure—it’s feedback
Modern work is designed to extract time, energy, and attention
The system rewards productivity over humanity
You’ve been conditioned to delay joy and normalize stress
Awareness is the first step to reclaiming your life
Work Recovery is an active process, not passive escape
Reflection
What if your burnout or exhaustion isn’t a sign you’ve failed—but proof the system is working exactly as designed?
You are not the problem. The system is extractive by design—and you have the power to choose differently. 
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com

Ep. 124 Winter '26, Lesson Four: What Actually Matters When Systems Crumble

In this episode, Bree Johnson reflects on the instability many people are feeling in 2026—from rapid AI-driven changes in work to political volatility and the growing sense that systems we once relied on are less predictable.
When structures feel unstable, the nervous system naturally searches for certainty. That uncertainty often shows up as irritability, anxiety, or a constant sense that something is “off.”
Looking to history, philosophy, and community responses to disruption, Bree explores a simple but powerful conclusion: when the world becomes unstable, the most reliable compass is love. Not sentimentality, but love expressed as care, responsibility, mutual aid, and staying connected to the people around us.
As traditional measures of value like productivity and income become less stable, expanding our definition of what matters—community, service, and relationships—may be essential for navigating the years ahead.
Key Takeaways
Rapid technological change, layoffs, and political instability are creating widespread uncertainty about work and systems people rely on.
When systems feel unstable, the nervous system reacts first, often through anxiety or irritability.
History shows that during unstable periods, community care and mutual aid become critical stabilizing forces.
Money and productivity still matter, but they cannot be the only measure of value or identity.
Relationships, service, and care for others often create the deepest sense of meaning during uncertain times.
Reflection Questions
If love were a primary value guiding your decisions this year, what would you prioritize differently?
Where might you shift energy away from productivity and toward care, connection, or rest?
How could you support or strengthen the community around you right now?
What practices help you stay grounded when the world feels uncertain?
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com

Ep. 123 Winter '26, Lesson Three: Community, Service, and the Truth I Learned

In this deeply personal episode, Bree Johnson shares the third major lesson from the “Winter of 2026”: the incredible power of community rooted in service.
What began with a phone call from a grieving teacher — and a devastating story involving a young student — became a catalyst for Bree’s immersion into community care work across Minnesota. Through rapid mobilization, fundraising, storytelling, and connection-building, Bree discovered a radically different understanding of community than she had previously experienced in her career and life.
This episode explores how authentic community is not an audience, not followers, and not transactional relationships. Instead, it is a two-way exchange grounded in service, mutual learning, and shared humanity.
Key Themes
The difference between being “part of” something and being truly in community
How crisis can catalyze purpose and clarity
Service as the foundation of meaningful connection
Moving from transactional audiences to reciprocal communities
The emotional reality of witnessing others’ pain
Why businesses and leaders must center impact, not ego
The connection between work stress, societal disruption, and the need for recovery
Love as the underlying force of both community and work
Core Insight
The richest communities are built on a two-way street.You give. You receive. You learn. You serve.And the work becomes love in action.
What This Means for Work Recovery
Bree connects her experiences to her broader mission:
Work stress is intensifying due to economic instability, industry disruption, and AI-driven change
Many people are experiencing panic, uncertainty, and identity disruption related to work
Recovery from work harm is not just an individual issue — it is collective care
Work Recovery is not self-care. It is community care.
Questions for Listeners
Where in your life are you truly in community versus simply adjacent to people?
What gifts, resources, or skills do you have that could lessen someone else’s pain?
Does your work create impact for people you care about?
What kind of community do you want to build or belong to?
Memorable Quotes
“There’s a difference between being part of something and being in community.”
“If you are serving a real need, you are meeting people in their pain.”
“The work is to love. Work in action is love in action.”
“Work recovery is community care.”
Connect with Bree
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com

Ep. 122 Wandering the Wild Mess: Self-Trust & Starting Over with Guest Heather Morgan

What happens when the map you’ve followed your entire life suddenly disappears?
In this conversation, Bree talks with writer, speaker, and podcast host Heather Morgan to explore what it really looks like to move through a major life reset — divorce, career change, identity loss, and rebuilding from the ground up.
Heather shares her journey from Fortune 500 strategist to creator of Wandering the Wild Mess, a platform devoted to self-trust and reinvention. Together, Bree and Heather unpack the uncomfortable middle space between who you were and who you’re becoming — a place many people find themselves after layoffs, relationship endings, burnout, or any major life disruption.
This episode dives into the emotional realities of identity deconstruction, nervous system recovery, breaking behavioral loops, and the micro-decisions that build confidence and self-trust over time.
In This Episode, We Explore
What it means to “wander the wild mess” during life transitions
Losing identity after divorce, career shifts, or major change
Why strength is built through discomfort, not certainty
The role of detachment in reducing suffering during hard seasons
Recognizing and breaking personal loops and behavioral patterns
How scarcity mindset shows up in identity and productivity
Rebuilding self-trust through small courageous actions
The power of environment and boundaries during identity shifts
How to stop self-abandoning and start choosing yourself
Anchoring a new identity before you fully feel it
Using future-self decisions to create change one step at a time
Key Takeaways
You have survived 100% of your life so far. Your track record is strong
Detaching from how life “should” look creates freedom to move forward
Many patterns persist because they serve a subconscious need
Identity reconstruction is wobbly at first — that’s normal
Confidence and self-trust come from reps, not insight alone
Every action is a vote for the person you’re becoming
Connect with Heather Morgan
Website: wanderingthewildmess.com  
Podcast: Wandering the Wild Mess
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
 
 

Ep. 121 Winter '26, Lesson Two: Courage Isn't Fearlessness -- It's Action

Why Courage Isn’t Fearlessness—It’s Action in the Face of Fear
In this powerful second lesson from the Winter of 2026 series, Bree Johnson explores what courage really looks like when life feels unstable, overwhelming, and uncertain.
We’re often taught that courage belongs to the bold, the confident, the fearless.
But real courage?
It’s feeling scared out of your mind… and choosing to move forward anyway.
In this episode, Bree shares personal stories—from speaking out about work harm and community care, to navigating self-doubt and obstacles on the TEDxDuluth stage—to show how courage is built through action, not perfection.
This conversation is for anyone who has been questioning their voice, shrinking their dreams, or waiting to “feel ready” before taking the next step.
Takeaways
Why courage is not confidence—and never has been
How fear, doubt, and uncertainty are part of the courage process
What Bree learned from speaking publicly despite relationship loss
Behind-the-scenes reflections on preparing for TEDxDuluth
The “lion within” metaphor and what it reveals about inner strength
Four practical pathways to building courage in your own life
Why action—not motivation—is the foundation of bravery
How courage supports nervous system regulation and work recovery
Ways to move forward even when you feel unqualified or afraid
About This Series: Lessons from the Winter of ’26
This episode begins a new series where Bree reflects on leadership, community care, and whole-human resilience shaped by living through a season of social and political reckoning in Minnesota.
Each episode offers grounded insight for navigating uncertainty without losing yourself in the process.
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 

Ep. 120 Winter ’26, Lesson One: Finding My Voice in a Season of Reckoning

In this deeply personal episode, Bree shares the first lesson from the Winter of ’26: learning that she had been too quiet.
After years of compartmentalizing herself to “protect” her growing business, Bree reflects on what it cost her—and her community—to edit her voice, soften her truth, and outsource her authenticity in the name of success. She opens up about leaving the employment law firm she co-founded, building Executive Unschool from a place of rupture and realignment, and choosing healing over hustle.
This episode is about leadership that starts inside. About reclaiming your voice in a time of pressure. About choosing wholeness over palatability.
If you’ve ever felt torn between being yourself and being “marketable,” between staying safe and staying true, this conversation is for you.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
Why Bree believes silence doesn’t keep us safe—it keeps us small
The story behind leaving her law firm and building Executive Unschool
How “polishing” herself for growth diluted her impact
What it means to lead from nervous system regulation, not survival mode
Why authenticity is not a liability—it’s the source
A vision for leadership rooted in care, integrity, and collective healing
An invitation to reclaim your full voice in uncertain times
Key Takeaways
You don’t have to fragment yourself to succeed
Your lived experience is part of your leadership
Neutrality often costs more than honesty
Regulation, rest, and reflection are leadership skills
Your values are not separate from your work—they are the work
About This Series: Lessons from the Winter of ’26
This episode begins a new series where Bree reflects on leadership, community care, and whole-human resilience shaped by living through a season of social and political reckoning in Minnesota.
Each episode offers grounded insight for navigating uncertainty without losing yourself in the process.
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 

Ep. 119 Leadership in 2026: Less Control, More Inner Stability with Andrea Tessier

What if the leadership skills we’ve been taught to develop are no longer the ones that matter?
In this episode, Bree Johnson co-hosts with Andrea Tessier to name what many leaders are quietly feeling as we move toward 2026: the old playbook is breaking down.
Strategy isn’t enough. Performance is no longer sustainable. And certainty is gone.
Together, they explore what leadership actually requires in this next chapter—inner steadiness, emotional literacy, intuitive discernment, and the capacity to lead without abandoning yourself. This isn’t about becoming softer. It’s about becoming more integrated.
This conversation opens the door to a different kind of leadership—one rooted in regulation instead of pressure, clarity instead of urgency, and integrity instead of over-functioning.
If you’ve been feeling the weight of leadership more acutely, questioning your decisions, or sensing that something has to change—but aren’t sure what yet—this episode will meet you right where you are.
In This Episode, We Explore:
Why leadership in 2026 will require capacity shifts, not new tactics
How chronic pressure and over-responsibility quietly erode decision-making
The difference between intuition and reactivity—and why it matters now
Why community and collaboration are becoming survival skills, not “nice-to-haves”
How emotional intelligence becomes a stabilizing force in uncertainty
What it means to lead from inner integrity instead of external expectations
Why regulation—not hustle—is emerging as a leadership strategy
Key Takeaways:
The future of leadership is less about control and more about internal steadiness
Intuition becomes clearer when the nervous system is regulated
Over-functioning is not strength—it’s nervous system debt
Leaders don’t need more certainty; they need self-trust
Sustainable leadership requires spaces where people can set down what they’ve been carrying
Leadership Lab 2026 Details
If this conversation resonated, Bree and Andrea are opening a four-part Leadership Lab designed to help leaders move from inner pressure to inner integrity—through regulation, decision clarity, truth-telling, and self-trust.
Email bjohnson@bree-johnson.com to express interest today, spots are limited. 
 

Ep. 118 Some Years Ask Questions. 2025 Gave Me Answers.

There’s a quote I keep returning to: Some years are questions, and some years are answers.
For me, 2025 was an answer year.
Not because everything was easy but because the growth was undeniable. In this episode, I share five lived lessons from a year that asked me to stop negotiating with myself, simplify radically, experiment with contentment, trust the timing of the universe, and listen to my intuition more deeply than ever before.
These aren’t theories or best practices. They’re answers that showed up through real decisions, real risk, and real trust.
Takeaways
Why honesty about fear creates faster clarity than overthinking ever will
How simplifying became both a financial and nervous-system strategy
What happened when I stopped striving and experimented with contentment
Why control blocks alignment—and trust opens better outcomes
How trusting my intuition led to unexpected opportunities without chasing visibility
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704 

Ep. 117 Why Resentment Peaks During the Holidays

The holidays have a way of amplifying what we’ve been carrying all year.
In this brief year-end episode, Bree explores why resentment often shows up during the holidays—and why it’s not a personal failure. Drawing on Brené Brown’s research, she unpacks how resentment is frequently rooted in unmet needs and unspoken envy, especially for rest, ease, and space.
This episode invites listeners to stop judging resentment and instead listen to what it’s pointing toward. Because when we understand the need underneath, we can give ourselves the comfort, pause, or care we’ve been postponing—and begin the new year from a more regulated place.
A quiet reminder that recovery doesn’t start in January. It starts with honesty.
We’ve been sold the wrong story about wellbeing.
It’s not that leaders don’t care enough.
It’s not that they aren’t resilient enough.
And it’s definitely not that they need one more productivity hack.
The real problem?
Leaders are hemorrhaging energy trying to control things that were never theirs to manage in the first place.
In this episode, I break down the single biggest barrier to wellbeing I see across founders, people leaders, and women running entire households: letting external uncertainty steal time, focus, and nervous system capacity.
Takeaways
Control is the illusion. Influence is the work.
Fear is an energy leak. Focus is a stabilizer.
Your humanity is your advantage.
Leadership doesn’t require certainty.
Recovery is essential work, not a reward.
Positive focus isn’t denial—it’s discernment.
If you’re tired of feeling braced for impact—and ready to reclaim your energy—this episode is for you.
Connect with Host Bree Johnson
Insta: @breejohnsonofficial
Website: www.executiveunschool.com
The Creative Reset Sat. January 17 in St. Paul: http://eventbrite.com/e/the-creative-reset-for-women-rediscovering-their-creative-voice-tickets-1968857473704